Apply to Join Swingular
A Private Lifestyle Community for the Sexually Adventurous
What We're About
Swingular is a private, members-only social dating community built exclusively for those in the lifestyle. We are not a public dating site — we're an invitation-only space for attractive, adventurous singles and couples who value realness, discretion, and connection.
Who Can Apply
We welcome applications from single females, couples, and select single males. All applications are reviewed for authenticity, completeness, and community fit.
Members also have the ability to block single males from interacting with or contacting them, providing full control over their experience.
How to Apply
- Select your registration type: Single Female, Couple, or Single Male (by approval)
- Fill out your profile completely with meaningful and honest information
- A profile photo/avatar is REQUIRED to complete your application
Physical attraction is a major component of adult lifestyle dating. Members need to see who they're connecting with, making profile photos essential.
- Upload a tasteful profile photo. Faces are optional. Blurred faces allowed.
Photo Guidelines:
- Must be an actual photo of you (or your couple)
- NO cartoons, memes, or images that aren't you
- Tasteful nudity is welcome (artistic, suggestive)
- NO explicit content allowed
- NO close-up genital photos
- NO pornographic imagery
- Photos violating these guidelines will be rejected
- All applications are manually reviewed by our admin team
- Incomplete applications or missing profile photos will be automatically denied and deleted
Privacy, Discretion, and Sexy Vibes
We respect your privacy and protect your identity. Once approved, you'll be able to upload explicit photos to your photo albums with advanced privacy controls:
- Selective Face Blurring - Option to automatically blur faces to single men
- Guest Member Protection - All photos are completely blurred to all guest members
- Photo Privacy Settings - Control exactly who can see your more intimate photos
- Secure Storage - All photos are stored securely with encryption
Membership Tiers & Verification
All new members start as Guest members with read-only access. Guest members cannot interact with others. To unlock the full Swingular experience, members must either:
- Verify their account (Real or VIP)
- Upgrade to a paid membership
Real Verification
Submit a photo of yourself (or both of you if a couple), holding a handwritten sign with the word Swingular, your username, and the current date.
VIP Verification (Verified In Person)
Get verified via webcam session or in person at lifestyle events hosted by approved organizers or Swingular representatives. Webcam sessions must be scheduled in advance.
Verified members get noticed more — because other members know you're real. Verified profiles receive more visibility, more messages, and more invitations.
Approval Timeline
Immediate Access: All new users get read-only access immediately after registration
Full Approval: Applications are reviewed within 24 hours, at which point you'll gain full access to all features